I have for a short time been learning more about Dominance and submission in a relationship. It is an awkward but liberating moment when you come to terms with this and accept it as something you want in your life.
It is also very difficult to find information out there for couples in a vanilla relationship moving to a D/s lifestyle.
For weeks now I have scoured the internet for information, pulling what I can from sites I can find. The more I delve into this subject, the more I learn about myself as well.
One thing I have learned is that, no person can truly dominate another unless they can dominate themselves. Sounds a little weird, but its true. If I as a Dominate let myself be ruled by my emotions, how can my wife feel safe submitting herself to me? She must see that I have control over myself and how I respond to what happens in life.
I have learned much from what I feel it means to be Dominant. I find myself having more passion for my wife, more patience with my children, and a new respect for myself.
My wife and I do not practice a D/s relationship 24/7, but elements of that nature are still present in our daily life. It makes me keep a certain standard in life, that also keeps my family to the same standard.
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