I'm still here

First I would like thank those of you that continued to stop by, even though I have been absent for so long. To Mr.Fox a special thanks for feedback and all the insight I have gained from his blog.

   I have been very busy for the past year and a half. My wife and I have survived some very hard trials and we are stronger in our relationship then ever. It has been very difficult road that a few times seemed that we might not make it. One thing we both realized, because we started our journey together became one of the strongest supportfor us in the really tough times. When we questioned our love, we looked back at how much we grew and learned about each other and ourselves.
The connection we made and the closeness that we shared, there was no way we could deny the love that we have for each other. It saved us from leaving everything we built together.

   We are still here growing and learning, life seems to be turning around. We have found a house that we are moving into, things should start settling down and getting back into routine.

   Heres for a good year to come, peace and love to all surviving, may you all have a great year.

Two more Bondage Bunnies from the past.

This was drawn in pencil and lined in with ink, then digitally colored.

This was done all by hand. Pencil and Ink.

Bondage Bunnies

This is some art I did in 2009. I wanted to post some of my old art, also a like minded friend of mine may get a kick out of this piece. I have a series of "bondage bunnies" artwork in the vault.
~Shin

Locks

Something about locks that add a wonderful sense of inescapable beauty.

 

Composure

I removed the last post, I wrote the post when I was still working it out in my head.

   The main point of the post however was keeping your control in any situation. This is the gravitational pull the submissive gets that reinforces their choice to submit.

   My wife and I do not practice the lifestyle 24/7, we do like to have fun, this leads to some very amazing sex. When I first started reading into the lifestyle it was mainly for some fun kinky sex, not that our marriage was hurting or that our sexlife was boring, I'm blessed with a wonderful marriage. We just wanted to play around and explore with each other. We tried roleplaying but couldn't get past the "stay in character", we laughed to much couldn't take it serious. In our adventure we have had a lot of fun, the D/s always intrigued me though.

   It was something we didn't have to play a character as, just be yourself basically. I've learned much about myself by learning more of the lifestyle. I love my wife and who she is, I love that naughty side of her that comes out when we have fun. The more I apply the lifestyle to my own life, the more it naturally happens, in and around me.

   So back to the main point, keeping control and composure. I didn't completely keep my composure in my last post so I removed it. The message is, a Dom must keep control of emotion in a situation that the submissive may loose control of emotion. When the submissive sees the Dom keeping control, this will reinforce the submissive choice to submit, and possibly submit more, as they see more. There is more I would like to say about this, but I have run out of time, sick children need attention.

~Shin

Blindfold and Rope

Oh the fun to have!

~Shin



Importance of a Name

   I have finally found the names we will use for each other. Lots of time has gone into these, generic names such as good girl, pet, slave, slut, Master, Dom, Sir, the list goes on, are all fine and good to use in the moment. I wanted to find something unique to both of us.
  
   I have decided to use Shin'Cen (Shin for short), and shay'lynn (shay for short). These are names that have meaning to both of us, Shin is a pen-name I have used for about 10 years now on a site I post minor bdsm art. Shay'lynn is, well... urban dictionary defines shay as "the girl every girl wants to be," and lynn is my wifes middle name (there also happens to be a street named shay lynn on a country road we travel often).
  
   So now that I have the ball rolling, I am looking forward to more post, along with art work I have been working on for the past few months.

   The picture above is one I sketched a few nights ago after I put the names together. Again this is only a sketch, for a "finished" piece I would normally ink in the lines, and spend much more time on the shading.  However, today I have some time to spend on the blog, and a few post I want to get posted before the moment passes, along with some artwork for your viewing pleasure.

Enjoy

~Shin